It is always well and good to say, “I care about you”, “I
love you”, “you’re amazing”, “You’re such a good friend” and so on. But you
can’t hide the fact that there is something there about the simple power in a
certain act.
Now, I’ve been lucky enough to feel this amazing in my life.
There have been moments when I’ve received presents from unexpected sources and
such thoughtful ones too. It definitely would have been completely acceptable
if they’d said “Happy Birthday” and told me how delightful it was to have me in
their lives or “Congratulations,” welcome into the fold. But when you go that
extra mile to actually show it, to say without words how much I mean to you
tends to have a more lasting impression. It doesn’t have to be presents, but
they are the easiest to illustrate. There are also things like; genuine
interest in my well-being; a word of caution here and there, a simple
observation you’d made. These are the things that make a person feel on top of
the world. It affects them more than mere words ever could. But it goes both
ways, so if you can lift a person up then you certainly can bring them down
with hurtful actions too.
Let me assure you, Reader, that this is really real and it
is an actual fact that I’m talking about. I am definitely trying to make this –
being considerate – an integral part of my life.
I’m not sure that I can adequately describe this feeling. To
explain something so intangible is beyond my abilities but I’ve tried my best. Despite that, if you don’t know what I’m
talking about then you simply don’t know and no amount of explaining on my part
would be able to make you understand.
The point of this is Reader, the next time you see a loved
one, someone you care about or if you see someone pretty upset, then for a
change, try telling them without words how special they are with the
incalculable power of certain acts.
After all, it is more blessed to give than to receive.